Affairs: Cancer or Cure?
In his article Affairs: Cancer or Cure?, Dr. John Rowe reflects on his over 30 years of couples counseling, during which he's helped countless couples navigate the aftermath of an affair. He's seen firsthand how an affair can either tear a couple apart or be the catalyst for positive change.
While Rowe acknowledges that infidelity is often devastating, he also believes that it doesn't have to be the end of a relationship. In that process, he asks two key questions:
"What was the soul of the one who had the affair looking for?"
“What was it in the soul of the marriage itself that was missing?”