What Does She Want for Valentine's Day?

Studies show that women love romance, but they define it differently than men. Sure, we all smile at the stories of men who propose on the big screen at the televised NBA game, but we don't expect that. Heck, a lot of us would be too embarrassed to even enjoy such a large and public display of affection. True romance when experienced between two people reminds a woman of what she really wants to know: that her man has been thinking about her and doesn't take her for granted. A small and authentic gesture sends a message that says you care. If you search online, you'll find hundreds of websites and articles full of ways to say "I love you."

I will tell you that the old saying "it's the thought that counts" really is true. So, think about it! What makes her smile? Is it a love letter, an offer to take the kids to school for a week, a night off from cooking AND cleaning afterwards, or renting her favorite movie and actually sitting down and watching it with her? Does she beg you to spend extra time with the children? Grab the Monopoly game and turn off the TV, cell phone, and computer for the evening.  Open up and see what happens. You may be surprised to see a genuine smile on her face.  Speak your truth in ways that others can hear. Studies show that most women believe their men never really "open up." Unfinished business and words left unsaid build up walls that keep intimacy out. Although your truth may be difficult to say, talk to her from a place of pure love.