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Is Your Life
In Balance?

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"When we implemented Men in Balance in our church, we had 9 men to sign up initially.  All nine completed the course, and all nine claimed to have been substantially impacted by their participation.  Ages of the men ranged from 28 - 60, and the interaction between the older and younger men was a wonder to behold...the younger drawing on the wisdom and experience of the older, and the older drawing on the excitement and enthusiasm of the younger.  The MIB curriculum helped us to focus our conversation around issues relevant to the lives of every man, and at the tend of the term, long-lasting ties had been developed among all.  I highly recommend MIB, and look forward to forming our next group."

— Rev. Steve Kirby
Union Grove United Methodist Church

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Men in Balance™ Discussion Group Curriculum

Week 1: Fathers and their influence (2 hrs.)

  • Traits (good and bad) of our fathers
  • Impacts of our fathers on our lives
  • Role of fathers in passage to manhood
  • Absent or missing (or emotionally absent) fathers and its impact
  • Christian implication of being a father

Week 2: Career (2 hrs.)

  • What are the career traps for men?
  • Balancing work and home life
  • Long term impact of work commitments
  • Personal identification with career/implications
  • Retirement: what to do with it

Week 3: Marriage (2 hrs.)

  • What makes a good marriage?
  • God's plan for marriage: Is it realistic?
  • Communication in marriage
  • Resolving differences
  • Divorce and its aftermath/options

Week 4: Sex and Intimacy (2 hrs.)

  • Why do men say they want more sex but not more conversation?
  • Sex: Men's view vs. Women's view
  • How is sex different from intimacy?
  • Role of communication in an intimate relationship

Week 5: Family Life (2 hrs.)

  • How much togetherness do you need?
  • Keeping the whole family involved
  • Teens and family life: special needs?
  • Church attendance and family connection

Week 6: Christian Life as a Man (2 hrs.)

  • Making a priority of your spiritual development
  • Being a spiritual leader in your home
  • Keeping your faith real and active
  • Christian life and work/career

Week 7: (Optional) Wrap-up/Review

  • Free-wheeling discussion of all previous topics, integrating them into a balanced life; discussion about continuing to meet or creating other groups; whatever is on your mind.
"A man who doesn't spend time with his family can never be a real man."

Marlon Brando as Don Carleone in THE GODFATHER